By Megan Breckenridge, Staff Writer
SULLO & SULLO, LLP
SULLO & SULLO, LLP
HOUSTON—With
the national divorce rate estimated at about 50 percent, it’s likely
that every American will, either directly or indirectly, experience the
dissolution of a marriage at some point in their lives. Dealing with
divorce is a difficult process, both emotionally and financially, and
decisions made during the process can have long-term effects on many
areas of your life. For this reason, selecting the right lawyer may be
the most important decision that you make.
Choosing
a lawyer to represent you in your divorce is an intricate process. It
means establishing a close and sensitive relationship with someone that
will continue for months and perhaps even years. It is important to find
and hire someone whose philosophy of the proceedings aligns with yours,
and as such, you must be prepared to ask questions that reflect your
specific concerns.
The first step in selecting a divorce lawyer is to gather names of potential counsel in your area:
- From other professionals: Lawyers, accountants, members of the clergy and other professionals meet and work with divorce lawyers in the course of their work and are often good sources of referrals. Ask them for the names of family law specialists with good credentials and reputations and whose qualifications are most appropriate to your case.
- From organizations: Your state bar may be able to provide a recommendation for certified family law specialists in your area. To be certified in the field of family law usually requires a certain proven level of experience, study and interest, and specialists must pass an examination in this area of the law.
- From your employer: The Employee Assistance (EAP) program provided by your employer may be able to provide confidential referrals to attorneys, and often affords a discount on the services performed. Your employer may also offer access to sponsored legal services, either by subsidizing all or a portion of your legal fees if you use specified legal providers, or by providing the opportunity to join a legal services program in which you pay a set premium in order to receive a certain level of legal services throughout the year.
- From friends or relatives: You may know someone personally who has gone through a divorce. They can be a good source of information about lawyers, with two qualifications: First, every client and every case is different, so it is difficult to evaluate the performance of a lawyer in someone else’s case. And second, the lawyer-client relationship is highly personal. So while the impressions of a former client about a lawyer are useful, you should meet the lawyer and make your own judgment.

